#demirose you say
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delightfuldevin · 6 days ago
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our-aroace-experience · 1 year ago
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Tbh I think it's kinda funny when I see an aphobe whining about demirose like "that's everyone!!" and then two posts down someone else is saying frayrose is the universal experience and I'm like. Did you guys look up the definition of these terms at all? They are both identities that are almost the exact opposite of each other, which one does everyone experience??? (the answer is neither). You can't have two universal experiences that are polar opposites. That's not how this works-
aphobes don’t have coherent views on the ace or aro spectrums, they just don’t believe any of it sadly. demirose and frayrose people are very valid!!
for those who may not know:
demirose- being both demiromantic and demisexual, which means they don’t experience romantic or sexual attraction to someone until a strong emotional bond is formed
frayrose- being both frayromantic and fraysexual, which means their romantic and sexual attraction will fade once an emotional bond is formed
feel free to correct me if i’ve gotten anything wrong!
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virovirokun-has-adhd · 1 year ago
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Hollow Shell of a Man
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"Oh if only there were words to describe how disappointed I am in you"
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[ABOUT]
Names ::
-> Fizziepop! [or just Fizz for short ehehe]
-> Viro
& more
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he / xem / h3 / vi / ren / it / zomb / static / mach / they
transmasc , genderfluid , catboy , luniboy , demiboy , cybrgender
lesboy , demirose , a-spec , qplatonic , aesthetic attraction , ambiamorous , robosexual
[#flags 4 me tag] \\ [gender & tertiary attraction] \\ [pronouns.page]
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ADHDer + minor sensory issues
-! taken & in a polycule !-
-! w/ @mayday-mayd4y & Malware @m0memto-mori <3 !-
"Strong believer of being queer being about defying societal norms about gender and sexuality and not about depending on feeling love at all"
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[LINKS]
Discord Servers Masterlist
Tags <- (outdated)
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FIXATIONS , DNI & MORE UNDER THE CUT
[FIXATIONS]
=ordered by how intensely I'm fixated=
Transformers
Regretevator
ULTRAKILL
Electric Dreams
Gravity Falls
Pressure
Lone Echo
Mogai/Liom Community
RotTMNT
Ponytown
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[STANCES]
shipcourse stance :: peacefic /+ neutralship -> more detail
syscourse stance :: pro endo , willo & tulpa
queercourse stance :: check my flags 4 me tag but mainly radinclus + anti radqueer
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[DNI]
MOUTHWASHING FANS.
anti any of my fixations
queerphobic / exclusionary towards any of my identities
-- (including polyamory , ace/aro , mspec identities , mspec lesbians & gays , lesboy && xenogenders)
radfems.
ableist
darkship / pedos / tcest
disrespectful to others' beliefs
zionist / neo nazi / racist
dsmp stans / apologists / "kinnies" (cc&c!) [genuine system kinnies are fine] / ect. *
anti system / plural & anti endogenic/non-traumagenic system
anti kink
-- (this isnt just u thinking some kinks are gross this is genuine lowkey kink-shaming with no respect or regard for the kink haver's feelings)
nsfw/porn blogs
-- (unless i follow you first ig)
-- (i'm kinda sticky on these grounds, but im ok with valveplug)
*(for clarification idc if you still watch old dsmp creators' content (other than dream ofc bash that pedo's skull in) idc, i still watch Ranboo & stuff so as long as you're not trying to apologise for their wrongdoings / saying they've done nothing wrong, you can interact. Additionally if you support Dream or Wilbur for their wrongdoings stay the fuck off my blog and do not fucking interact. We support Shelby/Shubble here whole heartedly)
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[OTHER]
I occasionally use Cybertronian terms or slang in my everyday speech, whether its referencing a body part
- (helm=head, processor=brain, servo=hand, optics=eyes)
- or to replace swearing (frag=fuck, scrap=shit/crap)
- or just talking about Primus in the place of Jesus/God or whatever
I oftentimes struggle with tone in text so tonetags are immensely helpful :D
I meow a lot, I sometimes refer to "cat brain" when my brain stops working like a human's brain should and I forget things
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[HOUSEKEEPING]
=just some general rules i have=
Don't DM/PM me out of the blue. (duhh)
Don't send hatemail or things you know/think might trigger me.
Don't do the above to any of my moots/friends/partners either, if you do this you will be blocked as soon as I find out what you've done.
Stay in your lane, don't interfere with conversations / rb threads that's just common sense.
If I didn't reference you directly then I am very most likely not talking about you.
I only roleplay with people I'm closest to. (usually my partners)
Be kind obviously
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[SIDEBLOGS]
@kingalice-not-so-villain-au - Sona AU with my good friend @bananabiskit
@fizziedraws - art blog
Old Pinned Post =]
[OTHER SOCIALS]'
FlipAnim
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IMAGE BRACKET
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our-lesboy-experience · 10 months ago
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What do you think of the lesbian n wlw posts with "men dni" in their tags?
i mean, I do think people can set whatever boundary they want, and if theyre looking to date/flirt/an nsfw account then it makes sense if they're not attracted at all to men to not want to interact with them. but the problem is normally that those blogs almost always aren't considering multigender lesbians or any lesbian who's connected to manhood in some way. not a "ik these lesbians exist I just don't want to interact with men at all" way, and more like a "I don't think they're real lesbians or deserve to be part of lesbian advocacy" way. it will just be a regular lesbian or even just sapphic blog who makes positivity posts for other sapphics who put "men dni" and very much purposefully exclude bigender, genderfluid, and other man-aligned sapphics
i normally don't follow blogs geared towards wlw/qlw yearning or love (im demirose so it's made it difficult to relate and also haven't been in the headspace to read those posts), but I always stay away from ones that have men dni even though they probably aren't ever thinking of me when they say that and I don't even really consider myself a "man" anyway. but I still feel like people would get mad at me for engaging because with it
oh, I got a good example. on reddit, I found this subreddit geared towards teenage girls who like girls, not a dating thing but just a community thing. but in the bio, they specifically say anyone who identifies as a man is not welcomed
i don't spend time on there so I wasn't going to bother, but I was thinking what the response would be if I asked if this applies to multigender people. would they say that I'm included, because I'm teenage sapphic just like them, they just weren't thinking of it? or would they say that because I'm bigender I shouldn't be in there at all?
I'm not sure, but it made me sad to read it. I wasn't going to join, but as a young lesbian just trying to fit in and find other sapphics like me, who's been marginalized for their orientation just like them, it made me feel incredibly sad to know I wasn't going to be welcomed anyway
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velvetvexations · 6 months ago
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cool, off-topic rant time
so aro/ace shipping in fandom mega increased cause of alastor from hazbin. i have my own issues with how vivziepop treated his orientation, but whatever. so my issue is not that he's shipped. whatever, ship and let ship. my issue is that SO MANY ppl were using the aro/acespec folks as like excuses. as in, "oh hes actually grayrose/demirose/ect so i can ship him" like??? one, you are shipping him in a allo way, two, just change his orientation in the damn fic/artwork ffs.
I dont think arguing ppl should never ship aspecs is helpful at all. its a fandom, ppl are going to ship. we should be focusing on the ppl who are using aspec identities as an excuse. there was a post talking about this that got put on reddit, and a ton of ppl were being aphobic.
it sucks cause everyone else sees the argument as 'aspecs are saying you can never ship them ever' and just refuse to see the argument of 'ppl are using aspec identities as an excuse to ship, and are using that aspec identity as essentially an allo one' or the dreaded 'it was their one true love and that makes this ship speecial'.
this whole thing has just increased tension between non partnering aspecs and partnering aspecs. also ive seen a lot of loveless and loving(?) aspecs stuff. then again, ive kinda distanced myself from aspec tumblr so. what do i know
i dont think ive explained my point well, but im tired so here it is
it really sucks that just having ace rep has caused issues, I'm sorry anon
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aspecpplarebeautiful · 2 years ago
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I am a demirose heteromantic and i am so so happy i have a label that makes sense finally!! I just feel sad a lot of people in the community say demis, esp demihets, dont belong
Demis and demihets both belong, Anon! And you deserve to be able to find community and support. And I'm sorry if you've run into trouble.
Honestly, gatekeeping is one of my biggest red flags for any a-spec or LGBTQIA+ community. A lot of the good ones will kick out the gatekeepers, not people with certain labels. Don't settle for less from any community spaces.
All the best, Anon! Take care.
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v4mpzyyx · 5 months ago
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Introduction ♡
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❧ You can call me Tae ^⁠_⁠^
❧ I'm autistic and I have a hyperfocus on Ferid Bathory (that's why my posts tend to be only about him);
❧ I like Owari no Seraph, Yabujin, Pastel Ghost, Angel Beats and I'm trying to get excited about Genshin Impact again;
❧ I like everything that seems to bring a sense of peace, whether in a more "melancholic" way or not, but I also like cute things;
❧ I love sweets, I'm addicted, especially Fini and candies, in fact, my favorite flavor is usually strawberry.;
❧ Some of my hobbies are drawing, playing games and reading manga, sometimes I watch anime too;
❧ I am LGBT, being an agender person (non-binary trans), demian (or demirose/demi-aroace) and gay, my pronouns are he/she;
❧ I'm Brazilian and I don't speak English fluently, so I'm sorry if I say something wrong. "So why do you speak English here?" There is no Brazilian community for the things I like here;
❧ I like Sanrio (I'm not a big fan) and my favorites are the Little Twin Stars;
❧ My musical taste varies a lot, so I don't have a fixed taste, as well as clothing style and aesthetics;
❧ I like some things that are no longer as common as they were before 2020, like Nightcore, Gacha and the like.
I think that's all, thanks for reading this far! (⁠^⁠^⁠)
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ijustwannamakeemojis · 7 months ago
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Hello could we have a demirose and demian hearts please?
It’s the term for being both demisexual and demiromatic, it works like how aroace is a easier way to say I’m aromantic and asexual, Demian and demirose are both the same meaning to my understanding
I found multiple demirose flags I do not know if you want one over the other so I’ll just give you both images
(From wiki)
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And then the other one I found
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And then the Demian flag
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I apologize if it is a lot, thank you if you decide to do this /gen
One of my good friends asks for like 15 flags a week you're completely fine /gen
I did already do the middle flag just under the name demiaroace below!
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brionysea · 2 years ago
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will saying sex is gross and his mother immediately telling him he'll change his mind when he grows up and falls in love is the most ace experience ever (with an added side of arophobia by treating romance as a given, on top of acephobia by treating a lack of interest in sex as childish)
even the angel that is joyce byers struggles to wrap her head around this form of queerness. she understands the concept of boys liking boys much more easily, as shown by how she didn't take will seriously when he said he wasn't gonna fall in love because she's seen him with mike and decided that their friendship involves romantic feelings
even if she's right, because will isn't an aromantic character and those feelings are revealed on both sides over the course of the show (much more slowly for mike because he's demirose), that refusal to believe people about their own feelings and lives happens every day. so does romanticising relationships you are not apart of because they show care and devotion for each other, and friendship alone is too devalued by society to be seen as the reason behind it
that's not good for anyone, whether they experience romantic attraction or not. it's what happened to el and mike, and dustin tried to do it to steve and robin before moving on to steve and nancy instead, despite talking about how dating steve makes nancy worse a few seasons prior. amatonormativity and the inherent devaluing of friendship it involves harms everyone, which is one of the main points of the show
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alex-the-otherkin · 1 year ago
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Name: Fluxuates depending on what prounouns I'm currently using. Alexandra on more feminine days, Alexander on more masculine days, and Alex on more neutral days.
Nicknames: Anything works but I love space, nature, or special intrest themed nicknames. If your going to use gendered nicknames please ask my prounouns first.
Age: I don't fell safe saying my age on here, but I will say that I am over 16.
Special Intrests: Anything to do with the positive side of LGBTQIA+, Nature, witchy things, Psychology, Maximum Ride, Miss Peregrine's Home for Peculiar Children, what real life monsters would look like, stuffed animals.
Random Fact: I would really really love it for someone to nicknames me somthing along the lines if glitch or glitchy. Why you ask? Well, when thinking about my phantom limbs I realized that I felt that one of my eyes was red and the other bright blue. I don't know if the red cam from the vampire or demon kins and if the blue came from the werewolf or angel. It reminded me of a glitch colors, and since then I've just kinda wanted to use red and blue for all my oc's eyes.
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How I learned I was a otherkin: Well. I had always felt odd, almost non-human my entire life. I often Imagined myself as diffrent animals, some from fantasy and some from real life. Most of everyone thought I was pretending and that I would grow out of it. I did not however grow out of it. To this day I still will feel wings on my back and am able to see them so clearly in my mind. Not only that but many more things alike. Apart from this I often feel intune to most animals, even making freinds with snakes and wasps. I have been a animal person since I was younger. I would be able to speak to the animals without any words. Some animals naturally flocked to me, well others took more time. However I was always ready to give all the love they deserve, no matter how long they needed. They also never scared me or harmed me like humans had. I was safe and at peace with animals. Eventually I started to wonder, Why don't I feel human? It was a tricky question. I often called people humans instead of people, as I didn't like being associated with Them. My parent didn't understand this but eventually let it go. I thought about it for a long time before I thought, maybe, just maybe I wasn't a human. I took to the internet when I stumbled across alterhumans, specifically otherkin. It instantly felt right. Like I finally found the last peice of a puzzle. Well, I'm still new to this I now understand myself A little bit better. (Sorry this was so long, this is actually a shortened version).
My Kin types: Angelkin, Demonkin, Vampirekin, and Werewolfkin.
Do I exsperience Phantom Limbs: Yes I do. I have phantom wings, phantom tail, phantom claws, phantom fangs, and phantom werewolf ears. Sometimes my wings will dissappear or feel smaller but the rest is almost always there!
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Gender: Genderfluid
Prounouns: Switches between She/Her, She/ They, They/Them, He/They, He/Him, She/They/ He, She/Her, It/it's, and mirror prounouns.
Sexuality: omnisexual, Panromantic, Demirose, Polyamorous
Dating Status: Current not dating anyone
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Asks: Everone is welcome to send asks as long as you don't go against my DNI or my boundaries. So feel free to send me anything ranging from a picture of your cat to a deep poem of your choice.
DM: Ummmm, this one is a bit tricky. It all really depends on the circumstances. Like your lonely and think I'd make a good freind? Absaloutly you can message me. You want to tell me something but are really scared to put it in a ask? Of course you can, as long as It doesn't go against my bounderies.
Touching: Only If we are really close. I am autistic and even the though of someone I'm not close with touching me makes my entire body cringe
Flirting: Absaloutly not. I am Demi-aroace (meaning I need a strong emotional connection to be romantically or sexually attracted to anyone) so I don't feel very comfortable with flirting. I am also under 18 soooo yeah, Absaloutly no flirting.
DNI: Basic DNI criteria (Homophobic, completely NSFW, Racist, cringe culture, ect). I don't have a super detailed DNI but I do block freely. The only thing I have to say is DNI if you are anti-otherkin.
Warnings: I have a tendency to cuss a lot, if your not comfortable with that than I recommend blocking the tag #TW cussing
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desired-reality · 1 year ago
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Name: Fluxuates depending on what prounouns I'm currently using. Alexandra on more feminine days, Alexander on more masculine days, and Alex on more neutral days.
Nicknames: Anything works but I love space, nature, or special intrest themed nicknames. If your going to use gendered nicknames please ask my prounouns first.
Age: I don't fell safe saying my age on here beacuse some people are really freaky, but I will say that I am above 18.
Special Intrests: Anything to do with the positive side of LGBTQIA+, Nature, witchy things, Psychology, Miss Peregrine's Home for Peculiar Children, what real life monsters would look like, My Hero Academia, FNAF (Exspecily security breah), shifting.
What types of posts will I Write, reblog, or like: Most likely something to do with shifting. It could be a fanfic that gave me a idea for my script, shifting motivation, random pictures, ect.
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Gender: Genderfluid
Prounouns: Switches between She/Her, She/ They, They/Them, He/They, He/Him, She/They/ He, She/Her, It/it's, and mirror prounouns.
Sexuality: omnisexual, Panromantic, Demirose, Polyamorous
Dating Status: Current not dating anyone
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Asks: Everone is welcome to send asks as long as you don't go against my DNI or my boundaries. So feel free to send me anything ranging from a picture of your cat to a deep poem of your choice.
DM: Ummmm, this one is a bit tricky. It all really depends on the circumstances. Like your lonely and think I'd make a good freind? Absaloutly you can message me. You want to tell me something but are really scared to put it in a ask? Of course you can, as long as It doesn't go against my bounderies. But If your gonna flirt just no, absaloutly not.
Touching: Only If we are really close. I am autistic and even the though of someone I'm not close with touching me makes my entire body cringe
Flirting: Absaloutly not. I am Demi-aroace (meaning I need a strong emotional connection to be romantically or sexually attracted to anyone) so I don't feel very comfortable with flirting. Soooo yeah, Absaloutly no flirting.
DNI: Basic DNI criteria (Homophobic, Racist, cringe culture, ect). I don't have a super detailed DNI but I do block freely. Oh and any Anti-shifters that interact will be instantly blocked.
Note: If your a minor do NOT scroll through my likes, as I will have some NSFW things in there. If any of my posts have NSFW things I'll tag them #Alex's NSFW, so if your a minor or just don't wanna see it you can block those tags.
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yourfaveis-hyperose · 1 year ago
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Panty Anarchy anon here.
Here's a guide for flags in use from this blog that are fine for photosensitives as far as I can tell. Keep in mind that this is just based on my experiences, and may not apply to all photosensitives. There's just a really big problem with flags not being friendly to photosensitives and accessibility with flag coining posts in general. I have a blue light filter on all devices I use to try to mitigate the eyestrain as well as my job being staring at computers all day.
Hypersexual + Hyperromantic (flag-mashups) - Headaches from the bright pinks. Combination flag is very visually busy and hard to actually tell what it is supposed to be combining.
Hyperromantic (luvlydevil) - Headaches from the bright pinks.
Hypersexual + Hyperromantic + combo (viraldoll) - The hypersexual one looks fine, as well as the hyperromantic one. The combo one has the yellow and white stripe a bit of a struggle to tell between the two of them.
Hypersexual (akumaii) - Colors are way too dark to be able to tell them apart easily at a glance, like the same issue as the first two but dark.
Questioning hypersexual (blood-moon-night-coining) - This one is fine.
Questioning hyperromantic (blood-moon-night-coining) - This one is fine.
Hypersexual redesign (dragoneating) - This is fine.
Hyperromantic aro (kiruliom) - No issues.
Hyperaromantic, hyperaroace, and hyperasexual (local-yurei) - The symbol is very dark and with the contrast of the colors behind it makes it hard to see with that middle stripe. The second one is dark and even harder to see than the first. Same problem with the last one.
Aroace hyperose and demirose hyperose (blood-moon-night-coining) - Mostly fine. I can see the first two stripes under the white stripe being hard to differentiate. It's very visually busy and can be overwhelming to look at.
Hyperromantic (caninophobia) - It's fine.
Hypersexual (epikulupu) - No issues. This is generally the one I prefer because of the lack of issues and it being very easy on the eyes.
Hyperrose/Hyperose (blood-moon-night-coining) - Very visually busy with the symbols, but the contrast and colors makes everything distinct enough.
The epikulupu flag is a good one as a default for hypersexuality due to how recognizable it is and lack of photosensitivity issues. It's just frustrating that so many of these flags either have issues with color contrast, visual business, etc that make them hard to look at and understand as a distinct flag at a glance.
Hi! I'll say now I am the person who made the Hyperose/Hyperrose (blood-moon-night-coining) flag, so I apologize for not making it very photosensitive. /gen Are there any proper tips you could give me to make any/all the flags used photosensitive-friendly? Such as would dulling colors help, adjusting the contrast, etc. I wish for everyone to be able to enjoy this blog and if just doing as simple as adjusting the colors on Hyperose (and or just making a version of the flag to be photosensitive), then I would willingly do it. For flags I didn't make, I don't know if they are comfortable with adjusting flag colors or things. So I sadly don't know what I should do for those.
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daftdrac · 1 year ago
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One day I'll organize this post better UHHHH it's probably time I make an intro post so ,,
First of all, DNI's (they're all pretty basic)
•homophobes, transphobes, proshippers, zoophiles, etc.
•Anyone who doesn't like polyamorous people, especially if you're a part of lgbtq+ yourself.
•Neo (PRONOUNS. NOT NAZIS WHAT THE FUCK. NAZI HATERS ARE WELCOME) haters.
My tags?
• daft rambles: just a ramble post, really. Me spitting my thoughts or problems into the void because. I can.
• daft reblogs: self explanatory :3
• daft asks: answering asks
• daft literature: my writings and lore drops and stuff :3
About
This blog is probably just gonna be pretty random most of the time, but I will be posting art! My asks should be open! Ask literally anything I'll probably answer. I am eternally bored. Maybe request art?? Idk? I don't mind what you call me, but my chosen name(s) are: Luke/Lukas + Dominic
More Abt me↓↓↓
I use pretty much any pronouns other than she/her, which includes any neos/xenos you could think of, but I mainly use They/He/It/Ze! (I like it when people mix it up so maybe don't just use he or they all the time?) I am Transmasc, Genderfluid, Demirose, and Polyamorous. I don't really have a label for my sexuality because it honestly confuses me but if you really want to know, I'd say it's closest to just being Gay.
/Fandoms/Things I like!!! ↓/
• Hermitcraft and everything else in that bigass fandom
•SCENARIO SMPPP
•The Quarry !!
•The Stanley Parable
•This one hurts. to admit. But. MCSM
•This one is even more painful to admit. Even though it's basic. COD. More specifically Modern Warfare (OG/Reboot, idc)
/stuff I'm kinda interested in↓/
•Lifesteal SMP
•FNAF
•WOF
•MLP, especially the Equestria Girls movies
•BROKEBACK MOUNTAIN.
• Invader Zim!!!
( I am autistic, in case you were wondering. Also ADHD. I'm willing to answer any questions anyone has, either related to any of my interests or anything else in this post! )
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our-lesboy-experience · 9 months ago
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How does one know if one is a lesboy? Also how does one know if one is an mspec lesbian? Also can one be both? Also can one be both and also aroacespec? Sorry for the question spam I’m having my yearly sexuality crisis (stick around in six months for the yearly gender crisis)
so first it'll answer the question of "can you be this at the same time"- yes, absolutely. im an mspec lesboy (not really attracted to men, but am to genders under the nonbinary umbrella and pretty flexible when it comes to genderfluidity and if we had already been dating) who's both on the ace and aro spectrums (though I don't see myself under the label aro in any sense, I just say demirose). so technically that's me, the mspec aspec lesboy, so I can say for certain you can be all those things
as for how someone knows is they're an mspec lesbian or a lesboy, my response that is gonna be roughly the same for everyone that's asked me before, and that it's pretty hard for someone that isn't well, you, to know. with lesboy, it's really just if you feel it describes you accurately based off your own experience (like I've said before, similar to genderqueer). the only requirement really is being a lesbian, the best I can suggest to you is to try it and see how you like it. mspec lesbian is kinda similar, as someone can have their own person reasoning for calling themselves such, and im not in a place to tell anyone whether or not they're allowed to use that label. if you're attracted to more than one single gender, and experience sapphic or queer attraction to women, then yeah, go ahead with it.
ive been answering a few asks like these lately so I think I might wanna make a statement on what my advice is if you're figuring out if labels like lesboy are for you- use it. call yourself it, express yourself with it to others, try it out like a piece of clothing or a new name you're figuring out if you like or not. some "modifier" labels are not quite the same as asking if you might be trans or ace or bi. some rely on you exploring by using it, in order to figure out it fits you. I can't exactly help people in figuring out if they're actually a lesboy or not because it entirely relies on what means to the individual. again, similar to genderqueer. all I can suggest is to use it first, then see how you like it
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caeliangel · 1 year ago
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not a request, but i am currently questioning my orientation but a little lost on where id fit. i noticed that you make flags for different orientations, thus i wanted to ask. feel free to ignore this though. /nf
ive recently accepted being a girl. so that is whati identity as amongst other nonmen labels. i prefer relationships with nonmen and women rather than men. for men, the thought is okay but i have no interest in executing anything with one. on paper theyre okay, but i dont see myself dating or being intimate with a man. i would be okay with dating nonmen and possible intimacy as long as our relationship is close. i'll yearn for it but, no interest until a strong relationship is established. ive been questioning the sapphic label but im not sure.
From what you describe you could be a lesbian!! It's okay to like men, but you wouldn't really date one, so probably a lesbian. (Ofc lesbian can do whatever they want but let's say we're talking about the ones who don't date men). And of course, if sapphic suits you better, then use that!
No attraction until the relationship is established? Demiromantic!! Or demiattractional ^_^ I'm personally demirose and what you're describing reminds me of how I feel with romantic and sexual attraction. I don't rlly feel romantic attraction but when I do, a strong bond has to be there before.
So to summarize, look into the demi- labels among sapphic and lesbian labels!
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scatterbrainedcoree · 1 year ago
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Thank you!! They are lovely kids, truly. Sufices to say me and Amy did a better job than Nicolas teehee~♡
Our amy can age shift to her teen self to her adult self, but 95% of the time she is a teen because she is scared of being an adult
She’s also a aceflux demirose (demiromantic and demisexual) lesbian
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